tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2067766213090939973.post4463347657490994975..comments2023-09-10T08:36:29.661-04:00Comments on Stupid Dumb Breast Cancer: Jigglers anyone?AMER Ohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13902964833539399077noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2067766213090939973.post-20471250926513955862013-10-21T06:48:34.123-04:002013-10-21T06:48:34.123-04:00Thanks for the information... I really love your b...Thanks for the information... I really love your blog posts... specially those on<a href="http://www.neomedhospitals.com/" rel="nofollow"><b> IPT (Insulin Potentiation Therapy) <br />For Cancer </b></a> Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08304361538703080888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2067766213090939973.post-11168487014430531872013-09-27T06:30:18.083-04:002013-09-27T06:30:18.083-04:00I love you simply love you. Our driveway talk was ...I love you simply love you. Our driveway talk was one of the best therapies I eve had xoxoxoxoAMER Ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13902964833539399077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2067766213090939973.post-38928998294878160542013-09-26T09:40:59.216-04:002013-09-26T09:40:59.216-04:00AM,
We had this conversation standing in your dri...AM, <br />We had this conversation standing in your driveway not too long ago...so I know you know I feel the exact same way. If I could erase the last two years of my life, I would in a heartbeat. Oh to have my own breasts back...But here we are, in reality, stuck with a patchwork of scars, numb chests (and back in my case) and a feeling of wondering...wondering who we are now, wondering if we'll ever feel normal, or even what "normal" will be, wondering if we'll ever be able to look at ourselves in the mirror again without cringing or crying, wondering will we ever feel sexy again(I highly doubt it for me), wondering if one day this will all be a distant memory and the depression will fade. <br />I never considered myself "defined" by my boobs, but I knew who I was with them, and I knew how to wear clothes to enhance them, but in my current state, all I want to do is cover them up. Clothes don't fit like they used to, so now I feel like I need to learn how to dress all over again. There are days I think of having them removed and just keeping the muscle & tissues from my latissimus surgeries to make the mounds, but dressing them would still be an issue. Perhaps if I were 30lbs thinner, it would be doable, but to have my waist be bigger than my chest would not be in the best interest of my body image as it's already in the tank as it is. =P Anyway, it is what it is...we just have to figure out a way to live with it. <br />I wish you luck in your next chapter. I pray the surgery is a success and that you are happy with the end result. Hugs!! Love you! xoxoxoxoDebhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11761433656984629144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2067766213090939973.post-69964062035767575802013-09-24T21:35:38.183-04:002013-09-24T21:35:38.183-04:00I've had my implants for about two months. Th...I've had my implants for about two months. They still feel like foreign objects in my body. I can't cross my arms. I don't sleep we'll on my side, on my back, or any position. I hate them. I had no idea that a DIEP procedure might still be an option. Something I may have to look into. I'll have smaller foobs, but might be worth it to be comfortable again.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08250452457938633655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2067766213090939973.post-70051220491167744822013-09-04T20:26:16.674-04:002013-09-04T20:26:16.674-04:00I wasn't able to get reconstruction after my p... I wasn't able to get reconstruction after my partial, cant find a plastic surgeon who will take this crappy state insurance. So I completely understand and know how you feel, I try not to look in the mirror when I am undressed anymore, it is too damn painful. I cry in the shower and even after I get dressed, I can see the difference and it is embarrassing. I know it is not my fault, (stoopid damn crappy breast cancer)I hate the fucking reminder every damn day.... Sorry for the rant. <br />Anyway, I wish you the Best of luck with the next surgery,sending prayers & good thoughts!! hopefully it will be the best thing ever!chemo for everyone! Angry Blogger! https://www.blogger.com/profile/05290916002732919159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2067766213090939973.post-37410231020616242832013-08-29T08:25:42.492-04:002013-08-29T08:25:42.492-04:00You go, girl!! Being semi-happy with your physica...You go, girl!! Being semi-happy with your physical body, after the cards you've been dealt, is the least you can expect... and deserve! Hurray for you!! Don't forget... we want pictures. Of the stilettos, of course!! :-D<br /><br />Remember... this surgery will be a distant memory someday too. Just like everything else.<br /><br />Love ya~ Andrea<br />XOXOXOAndreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06906294073463591713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2067766213090939973.post-27220439343622011862013-08-27T04:55:03.820-04:002013-08-27T04:55:03.820-04:00All I can say is, you are one tough broad! (And I ...All I can say is, you are one tough broad! (And I mean that with all the love and respect hose small words can hold.)<br />I've never had cancer, but I can understand (on a different level) looking in the mirror and not knowing whose body your head is sitting on. Or feeling like your body and life conspired to betray the shit outta ya.<br />It's one hell of a hard, scary road you're starting on and I wish you all the luck and love you'll need times a hundred! And or course, I hope you'll know that besides the love and support of your friends and family, there are a ton of us "strangers" rooting for you! *hugs*Chris Deanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00008694485795818520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2067766213090939973.post-3388069214335455492013-08-26T23:40:38.936-04:002013-08-26T23:40:38.936-04:00OPPS - I MEANT ...those stupid implants. sorry. x...OPPS - I MEANT ...those stupid implants. sorry. xoxo, karentccomments2013https://www.blogger.com/profile/00446394638074551345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2067766213090939973.post-26088263520063552202013-08-26T23:38:06.885-04:002013-08-26T23:38:06.885-04:00Dear AMER O,
I am so very sorry with all that you...Dear AMER O,<br /><br />I am so very sorry with all that you have been through with those stooped implants. but I am so happy that you are headed towards what sounds like a solution to make you feel "real" again. I am sending my most powerful vibes for the success I KNOW will be yours, for healing, and for comfort. good for you for following your gut (and thank goodness you were able to grow that gut!) am here for you, cheering you on to much better days, and hope you can FEEL the love and light I am sending right to your sweet heart. XOXOXOXOXOXO, Karen, TCtccomments2013https://www.blogger.com/profile/00446394638074551345noreply@blogger.com